According to Fundy Christians, this does not exist. Fundy Christians are not helpful to women with inconsiderate husbands. Some like Phyllis Schlafly think a husband can rape his wife any time he wants to. Many women only find out what inconsiderate things their husbands want after marriage. If nasty things are forced onto a wife Schlafly still says that is not rape. Either people like Schlafly have not studied what is said about the harm caused by rape in marriage or they consider such opinions unimportant. The following is from a website counselling abuse victims.