Wedding Wars is a 2006 Made for TV Movie about gay marriage, starring John Stamos, Eric Dane, Bonnie Sommerville and Sean Maher. Ben Grandy is the re-election campaign manager for the governor of Maine. He's also marrying the governor's daughter, and they pick Ben's brother, Shel, to plan the wedding, even Ben and Shel's relationship is strained because Ben is uncomfortable about Shel being gay. Don't confuse it with Bride Wars.