To meet gay people almost every city has a club, discotheque or bar where gays hang out. You need to search in google for your local listing of gay places of interest. You will not find a gay, say, at the mall or at work; because most of them hide their true self in social environments. I have seen many in some outdoor places I have been, who are not afraid of showing who they are, but those are very scarce. Wish you luck either way! === The answer to this question depends on a number of variables and your particular reasons for wanting to meet gay people.