Unlike actual sex, which is characterized both by spontaneity and the need for thorough cleanup afterwards, WikiSex usually involves careful, long-term planning, but with almost no post-coital activity whatsoever - other than extensive psychotherapy to overcome vague feelings of guilt and shame. Moreover, very few Wikipedophiles are able to manipulate events within an anonymous Wiki community skilfully enough to entice another Wikipedophile, or even an "ordinary user," into an act of WikiSex. As a result, most such activity is pursued either alone, or with some sort of inanimate object.